The Insomnia Paradox: Stop Trying to Sleep (The 100% Acceptance Zen Method)
Photo by now-waker If you are staring at the ceiling at 3 AM, paralyzed by the thought, "Why can't I just fall asleep?," you are already losing the war against insomnia. The intense striving to control or fix the problem—the "trying to sleep"—becomes the very fuel that ensures wakefulness. Venerable Korean Zen Master, Beopsang Sunim , teaches that suffering is not the sleeplessness itself, but our resistance to it. Sunim radically suggests that problems are not meant to be solved one by one; rather, "The answer is always within the problem, and knowing a single truth will solve any problem instantly." That single truth is the wisdom realized by the Buddha: the knowledge of the Three Marks of Existence—Impermanence, Suffering, and Non-Self —and the realization of the true nature of 'I'. The Mechanism of Deluded Discrimination and Emptiness Sunim explains that everything in life is a continuous stream of Manifestations, arising and passing ...